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A new T1D diagnosis may provoke profound grief in young children, parents, and other family members, leading to feelings of shock, denial, anxiety, sadness, guilt, anger, and frustration. Grief may focus on loss of a formerly healthy status, loss of control, and loss of freedom in daily activities. Often there is dis-belief that T1D is permanent, worry about acute and long-term health complications, and guilt that either the person with T1D or their parents caused T1D through genetics or actions (e.g., food choices). The newly diagnosed individual becomes a person with T1D; parents have a new focus on caring for a child with a lifelong, possibly life-threatening condition. In addition, a new T1D diagnosis necessitates learning and integrating many new health-behavior routines into daily life. An exercise that may help children identify or express feelings about a new diagnosis is to draw their T1D (see the “My T1D” worksheet) or write a letter to T1D (see the “Letter to T1D” worksheet for adolescents). This same exercise may also be helpful for caregivers (see the corresponding caregiver worksheets).

Mental health professionals can offer anticipatory guidance that there may not be a discrete end point to this grief. Symptoms of grief may ebb and flow across time. Grief may resurface when developmental milestones are met and as adolescents transition to young adulthood. Grief may also recur when there are challenges or changes in T1D management such as a T1D-related medical event or hospitalization or learning new technology. Triggers related to the initial T1D diagnosis may include the anniversary of the diagnosis (sometimes referred to as “Diaversary”) or learning about other people’s T1D challenges or the death of a person with T1D. Chronic unresolved grief has the potential to lead to diabetes distress or depressive symptoms. Guiding young children and parents to consider these possibilities around the time of the initial T1D diagnosis may help them anticipate and prepare for possible resurgence of grief. Some people benefit from using positive psychology-based approaches, such as recognizing or “celebrating” annual “Diaversaries” as a chance to reflect on how far they have come since diagnosis (see the “Diaversary party checklist” worksheet).

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